
5 in 5 mothers and fathers experience matrescence and patrescence
The transition to motherhood and fatherhood, also known as matrescence and patrescence, is a profound emotional, physical, and identity shift that can feel both beautiful and overwhelming. In the therapy space, we can explore these changes, including any birth trauma therapy you may need, honor your experiences, and address challenges such as postpartum anxiety and postpartum depression. Let's work together to find balance as you adjust to this new chapter in your life, and if you're considering starting a family, fertility counselling can also be a valuable resource.

A difficult or traumatic birth can leave lasting emotional and physical scars, often leading to uncomfortable feelings and symptoms. Many parents experience flashbacks, anxiety, or a sense of disconnection after such experiences. Birth trauma therapy provides a safe space to process what happened and explore its meaning for you, gently reducing the emotional intensity of those memories. With the support of birth trauma therapy, you can begin to feel calmer, more connected to your baby and loved ones, and more confident as you move forward in your parenting journey.
Prenatal and Postpartum depression affects many expecting and new parents and can lead to feelings of sadness, exhaustion, guilt, or disconnection from your baby. It can also be accompanied by anxiety, making it even harder to cope. While it can be difficult to discuss these feelings, remember that you don't have to go through this alone. Therapy can provide valuable support, helping you ease emotional distress, regain balance, and feel more supported as you adjust to life during pregnancy and after birth.
Postpartum anxiety is common, yet often overlooked. It can manifest as racing thoughts, constant worry about your baby's safety, or difficulty resting, leaving you feeling on edge. Engaging in therapy can provide a supportive environment to address these feelings and learn new coping strategies.
The loss of a pregnancy or baby is a profoundly painful experience, often accompanied by complex and overwhelming grief. Many parents struggle with unanswered questions, guilt, or a deep sense of emptiness after such a loss. Therapy can offer a gentle, supportive space to share your feelings, honour your baby, and find ways to navigate life after loss.
I can support you through your grief at your own pace, reduce feelings of isolation, and learn how to carry your loss with compassion while keeping the bond and memories of your baby close.
Struggling to conceive or facing fertility challenges can be an emotional and overwhelming journey. Fertility counselling provides a safe and supportive environment to process feelings of grief, stress, and uncertainty that may arise along the way. Support can be especially beneficial at various stages—whether you’re just starting to try for a baby, undergoing fertility treatments like IVF, coping with pregnancy loss, or considering alternative paths to parenthood. In therapy, you'll have the opportunity to explore your emotions and reflect on the information from medical teams, enabling you to make informed decisions. Additionally, fertility counselling can help you develop coping strategies that foster resilience and empowerment throughout your fertility journey.




Clonakilty Natural Therapies, Bank House, 1 Emmet Square, Youghals, Clonakilty, County Cork, P85 PH22, Ireland
Mon | 09:00 – 17:00 | |
Tue | 09:00 – 14:00 | |
Wed | 09:00 – 14:00 | |
Thu | 09:00 – 15:00 | |
Fri | 09:00 – 17:00 | |
Sat | 09:00 – 15:00 | |
Sun | Closed |